Confessions of a Competent Asshole: Why Being Liked Isn’t the Job (and That’s Okay)
Picture this: It’s 3 a.m. at a mid-tier hotel, the lobby is silent, and there’s one person running the show. They’re not just checking guests in and out—they’re single-handedly troubleshooting, solving crises, and keeping the whole operation afloat while the world sleeps. This is the life of the night auditor (or NA, for those in the biz), and according to one veteran, it’s a job that turns you into a hyper-competent problem-solver—or, as some coworkers might say, a world-class pain in the ass.
But what happens when doing your job too well makes you public enemy number one among your colleagues? Is it possible to be the best at what you do and still be liked? Or, more provocatively: Does it even matter?
Let’s dive into the tale of u/AlTheHound, a self-proclaimed “asshole” who’s spent over a decade in hotels, and the raucous, revealing Reddit discussion that followed his unapologetic confession.