Why Do People Mistake Politeness for Weakness? Tales from the Front Desk
If you’ve ever worked a customer-facing job, you know the drill: smile, be polite, weather the storm of humanity one bizarre interaction at a time. But what happens when your politeness gets mistaken for cluelessness—or worse, for weakness? That’s exactly what happened to one front desk worker whose tale recently struck a nerve on Reddit’s r/TalesFromTheFrontDesk.
The story? An endless parade of impatient guests who ask questions, never pause for answers, and assume if you’re not interrupting, you must not be paying attention. When our hero (u/neofox299) finally points out that it’s rude to interrupt, the customer storms off, wounded pride in tow. Sound familiar? If so, buckle up for a deep dive into the wild world of mistaken politeness—and the secret power of nice people everywhere.