Why Are Hotel Guests So Two-Faced? Tales of Politeness, Policy, and Passive-Aggression at the Front Desk
Picture this: You're working the front desk at a hotel, mastering the delicate art of customer service—smile plastered on, patience set to maximum, and ready to help. A guest approaches with a request, you deliver your lines with the practiced politeness of a seasoned pro, and they nod, smile, and thank you. You think, "Hey, that went well!" Fast forward a few hours, and—bam!—your manager is forwarding you a scathing guest complaint about how "rude" you were. Wait, what? Weren't we just besties at the snack bar?
If you've ever worked in hospitality, this scenario probably feels all too familiar. The phenomenon of guests being sugar-sweet to your face and then acting like you torched their vacation in the survey that follows? It’s practically a rite of passage. But why does this happen, and what does it say about human nature, customer service, and the mysteries of the hotel lobby?